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My dating pattern has been that i'll meet someone new and she'll be all into me and I like her but after 3 or 4 months i just lose interest and dump her or stop calling her out-of-the-blue. Fear of falling in love, fear of commitment, wanting to sleep with many women? Hey Alpha, Could it be that they no longer become a challenge after 3-4 months?

Now, conversely, a few women have done the same to me (lose interest in me after a few months) but 80% of the time it is me losing interest in her. Normally after this time, for me I tend to let down my guard around a person a little them start getting close and now londer play games, so I guess I would no longer be a challenge. If you are to nice up front and seem like to much of a push over I loose interest real quick. When you meet THE one for you, you don't get bored after 3 to 4 months.

I haven't read all your posts like some have but are you REALLY looking for something more long term? What happened with the "handful" who DID keep you interested. After a while you realize they are not that exciting. __________________ The only philosophy which can be responsibly practised in face of despair is the attempt to contemplate all things as they would present themselves from the standpoint of redemption.They were challenging in the beginning, played their games with you, but when they dropped their guards and became human, you lost interest. I can count on one hand how many women in my past kept my interest long-term... - Theodor Adorno Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.I agree that no one is perfect but my ex had everything I wanted in a guy and what did I do? I take all of the good people for granted and regret it when I lose them for good. I would of probably been with someone already if I stopped tossing out all the ones who have been into me. My problem is usually the ones that don't show interest I want and the ones that do I find to be too easy..because I could just have them like that. These are the guys that end up in the friend zone and are great to vent to as they will listen to you just like your GF. Good guys - These guys respect themselves, set clear boundaries on what is acceptable, have a moral compass and really encompass the "good" parts of a bad guy and nice guy. They are usually referred to as players and bad boys.

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